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S-avem un an

Post author:Stefan S.
Post published:January 26, 2022
Post category:Lessons Motivational My story, my life Personal Development

Decembrie mă obosește.

Toată nebunia sărbătorilor, colindele ce încep din noiembrie, luminițe peste luminițe, nebunia cadourilor etc. Și după ce se termină astea, începe nebunia finalului de an, obiective, rezoluții, wrap-up’s. Laudatio cu ce s-a facut în ultimul an, ridicarea în slăvi a ce vrei să faci anul viitor, fiindcă trebuie să arăți lumii cât de ambițios ești. Obiective, planuri, bullshit.

Înțeleg importanța obiectivelor și a planurilor. Dar am început să nu le văd magia. Mai ales marketingul intens al culturii de dezvoltare personală. Ți-ai setat obiective? Sunt smart, nu sunt smart? Ai grijă să fie cât mai specifice posibil. Ai grijă să nu fie specifice. Fă listă, scrie romane, fă bullet points etc etc. Cum ziceam mai sus. Bullshit.

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When goals become obsessions

Post author:Stefan S.
Post published:October 3, 2017
Post category:Motivational My story, my life

I had a sudden insight today. Goals and desires won’t be achieved until they transform into something real until they become an obsession. Only in the moment when the only thing that you think about it’s that particular goal, only then that goal will go on the course of becoming reality.

Until then the goal it’s just a wish. Something that you say to make yourself feel good. Something that you look upon, but you never really dare to go to.

When I realised this, I was sitting on a bench. Eating some pizza and listening a podcast on my phone. Looking at the pigeons that were swarming around me. (more…)

My dear money, I set you free!

Post author:Stefan S.
Post published:December 14, 2016
Post category:My philosophy My story, my life

My dear money, from today you are free. I won’t chase after you anymore. You are free to go from my mind.

I didn’t go crazy when I wrote those lines above. I’ve written them a few days ago in my journal as well. I’ve decided that I will remove the money from my goals from now on. (more…)

How to make 2016 an awesome year

Post author:Stefan S.
Post published:January 4, 2016
Post category:My story, my life

Truth be told I’m not sure if 2016 will be an awesome year. Looking back at the last 25 years of my life every year was awesome in his own way, and every year was awful in his own way. I don’t know if 2016 will be a good year, but be sure that I will try to make it so.

I spent the last few days thinking what I accomplished in 2015 and what I want to do in 2016. I realised that I have a lot of work ahead of me if I want to accomplish everything I want to do. (more…)